It
has been said over and over again that a good man is hard to find. It has also
been said that men are dogs and that cheating is a natural part of who they
are. You pity the women who are stuck with them, and despite society’s
acceptance of their behavior, you find yourself wondering why they do it. Why do some men risk it all for fleeting
moments of pleasure? In our quest to figure out why men behave so badly, we
tend to forget that women cheat too.
Some
women don’t just have an affair. They, like men, are serial cheaters. Why and how does a woman become a serial
cheater? Out of curiosity, I asked one
woman who is a “serial cheater” why she did it. For the sake of discretion, I
will name her Cheater X. Here are the reasons she gave.
Excitement
Cheating
is exciting. Having an affair gave her an adrenaline rush. And, for her, that
rush too hard to resist.
Emotional
Need
Cheater
X stated that she liked feeling desirable. Things had become routine at home.
Although she loved her partner, she just wanted to feel sexy again. Like men,
women can begin to question their own desirability as they age. An affair can make they feel alive again.
Finances
Affairs
can be financially beneficial. Cheater X discussed receiving money from one of
her partners. She stated that although she did not find the man all that physically
attractive he was very generous financially.
Variety
Like
men, some women crave variety. They don’t like to be tied down to just one man
even though they know that man is good to them.
Selfish
Finally,
Cheater X confessed to just being selfish. She knows that she is hurting her partner
with her constant lies and deception, but she is just too concerned with her
own pleasure to stop.
Signs your wife is cheating:
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