Why Won't He Make the First Move?!

 

He likes you. You know he does. He flirts with you and shows all the signs of wanting to be with you. However, he has not asked you out- yet. He hasn’t even asked for your phone number. Even if he has, he still hasn’t called. So, what is the problem? Why won’t he make the first move?

He is shy

He is too shy to initiate contact with you. Even though he would like to be with you, he is just too scared to make a move. If this is the case, you will have to be the one to initiate all contact until he is more comfortable with you.

You are out of his league

You can’t believe it. He likes you. You like him. You smile. He smiles. You “accidentally” brush up against him. He turns all red in the face. But, he won’t say a word. You know he is not shy. You are cute. You know you are. In fact, other guys are falling all over you. So, what is the problem? Sadly, if you are too popular, too cute, or too exciting, this guy may think that you are out of his league. Because you can have any other guy you want, he may feel that he doesn’t stand a chance. So, to keep his heart from being broken, he has decided to just watch from the sidelines.

Worried about his friends

Okay, so you are not considered to be all that popular. You are not a male magnate. However, you are a nice person, and some guys would even call you cute. Despite your shortcomings, he likes you. He goes out of his way to help you. And, when the two of you are alone, he jokes with you a lot. But, whenever other people are around, he only smiles. What is the deal? The deal is that he is afraid of what his friends will say. It doesn’t matter if he is seventeen or thirty, men do care what their friends think. Although he likes you, he still may not ask you out or talk to you for fear of what his friends may think. What should you do if you feel that this is the case? Move on. If he really likes you, he will stand up to his friends and fight for you.

He already has a girlfriend

The two of you have exchanged phone numbers. You have called him several times, and he sounds glad to hear from you. The two of you send sexy text messages like crazy. The problem is he hasn’t called you. You are doing all of the calling. He answers your texts, but you have to text him first. You don’t want to hear this. None of us do, and we all hope that it is not true. However, there is a strong possibility that your crush is already involved with someone else. This is not to say that he doesn’t like you. It simply means that he is already in a committed relationship, and he is not willing to let it go at the moment. So, how do you know? Simple. Ask him if he is dating someone. If he is really serious about his girlfriend, he will let you know that his is already involved.

Men have many different reasons for hesitating to initiate contact. However, the reasons listed above are some of the main ones.