Sexual
Revenge
Okay,
you have caught him cheating. Maybe, he confessed. No matter how you found out,
you found out. And, it cuts like a knife. You trusted this man with your heart,
and how does he repay you? He goes out and does this! Now, what do you do?
Do
you leave him? Do you stay with him? Either way, you are out for blood. You
want to make him pay for all the nasty things he has done to you. So, what is
the best way to hurt him? The first thing that crosses your mind is to wound
his pride like he had done yours. You want to humiliate him. And, what better
way than to have revenge sex?
Well,
girlfriend, let me tell you. That is one of the worst things that you can do.
Why? Why should you stay straight when he has gone off the deep end? Because
as much as you will hurt him, you will end up hurting yourself.
I
get it. You’re mad right now. But, what about later? What happens when the
smoke blows over? You will discover that you have been no better than him. And,
what if the two of you decide that you want to work things out? How do you
think your little indiscretion will play into all of that? If the two of you
have children, how will this make them feel? And, most of all, how will you
feel?
Yes,
you are hurting, and you want to lash out. But, it is not worth it. Believe me.
I know. I was the queen of revenge at one time in my life. Thankfully, as I
have gotten older, I have gotten wiser. I have learned that having an affair
just to punish him always backfires on you. You end up feeling cheap and betrayed.
Revenge sex does not kill the pain of his betrayal.
So,
what do you do? You find strength in yourself. You turn to God. You turn to
your friends. You examine the situation and try to figure out what went wrong.
You pick yourself up and move on. You don’t use your body as a pawn in a game.
So,
sista, keep your head up! Brighter days are ahead.
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