I
know the title is crazy, but it is true. I am single. I love God, but I am also
a sexual being. I am aware that sex is best enjoyed within marriage. I believe
the Bible. However, I will not lie and say that I don’t have sexual desire.
This would be hypocrisy. I do want a companion. I want to get married. I want
to enjoy sex.
No,
I am not advocating premarital sex. But, I am being truthful. I have learned
that God knows me. He know my thoughts and my feelings. And, I do have sexual
feelings. I believe virginity is valuable, and if I could go back I would. But,
that is water under the bridge. What does irritate me is when Christians who
are married tell me to save yourself and I know they didn’t. What irritates me
are Christian men who tell me not to give men my phone number or tell a man
that I am attracted to him. Okay. Maybe. But, I am an independent woman, and I
don’t see anything wrong with smiling back at a man I am attracted to.
I
try to remain faithful to the cause. But, I am human. I am a sexual being, and
I do still have the desire to be with a man sexually. Is this wrong when I love
God?
The
only person who can answer that is God. So, save all your negative responses. I
just decided to be honest~unlike so many Christians out there who are having
sex and aren’t married.
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