Signs Your Wife Maybe Cheating on You

 

She’s been sweet lately-a little too sweet.  Ever though everything seems okay, you just can’t seem to shake that feeling that something isn’t right with your wife.  How do you know if your wife is cheating on you?  Look for the following signs:

*Change in appearance

Have you noticed that your wife suddenly looks better?  Is she taking a lot more care with her clothes and make-up than usual? There is a possibility she has just been getting fashion tips from a friend, but not likely.  When a woman begins to take a new founded interest in her appearance, chances are someone has found some interest in her and that someone is not you.

*New perfume

Does your wife smell different?   Is she trying out new perfume?  When a woman begins a new love affair, she will often want to look good and smell good.  There is nothing wrong with wearing perfume, but if she suddenly starts wearing it to work or wearing a new fragrance, this could be a sign that she is wearing it for someone else.

*Jealousy

Men are not the only ones to fall victim to the greened monster called jealousy.  Women are also guilty of being jealous.  A little jealousy is normal.  A lot of jealousy is a warning sign of a guilty conscious.  If you notice that your wife has suddenly become jealous of you, watch out.  Often a person who is cheating will project their own guilt onto their spouse.  They will begin to watch for signs that the spouse is doing the same thing that they are. 

*New Work Schedule

A change in work schedule is not a sure sign, but it is a sign.  If your wife is suddenly working longer hours and spending more time at work, you might want to find out what is going on. She might not actually be working late.  Your wife could be using this excuse to spend time with her new lover.

*Overly Nice

You and your wife use to occasionally bicker and fight.  Now, your wife is overly nice and compliant. Sure, it is good to agree, and you like it when things are going smoothly. However, your wife could be being compliant because she feels guilty about her affair. Men who are cheating like to give their wife “guilt gifts”. Women may not give actually gifts.  They simply pretend to be more loving and check out of the relationship emotionally. If your wife has stopped talking to you, she has started talking to someone else. A marriage must have communication in order to survive.

*Change in sexual habits

Everyone has their own sexual personality.  As a couple, you have learned your wife’s and she has learned yours.  Is she suddenly more excited or more adventurous?  It’s nice to think that this new behavior is just because she loves you, but it could be that she has acquired theses new techniques from someone new.

Maybe, she is suddenly avoiding having sex all together.  Women connect sex with emotional intimacy.  If a woman has disconnected with you emotionally, she will also want to disconnect sexually. 

*Change in attitude of her co-workers

Have you noticed a change in her co-workers’ attitude toward you?  Do they seem to be acting suspicious or even ignoring you?  This could be because they are aware of the affair. 

*Being secretive

Affairs are dirty little secrets.  If your wife is cheating, she will become secretive.  Have you noticed her taking phone calls in the other room?  Is her phone ringing at strange hours? Does one of her friends call more often and she suddenly has to rush out? These could be signs that she is carrying on a love affair.

Women, like men, cheat for many different reasons.  No matter what the reason may be, women do cheat, and they do display tell-tale signs of infidelity.  If you notice a combination of the signs listed above, then it’s time to have a heart to heart talk with your spouse.