Warning Signs Your Relationship is in Trouble
Has
your relationship changed lately? Does
your boyfriend seem cold or distant? You
have alos noticed that the two of you are spending less and less time together,
and you are beginning to wonder if maybe this is the end. You would like to work things out, but you
don’t know if he feels the same. How do
you know if your boyfriend is thinking about breaking up the relationship? Look for the following signs.
*Avoidance
One
of the first signs that your boyfriend is thinking about calling it quits is
that he is spending less and less time with you. In fact, he is avoiding you. He won’t take your calls, and he goes out of
his way to avoid the places that he knows you will be. Your boyfriend is avoiding you because he no
longer enjoys your company, and he just hasn’t gotten around to telling you yet
that is over.
*Old
issues keep surfacing
In
order for a relationship to progress, you have to deal with issues that come
up. However, once an issue is dealt
with, it should not continue to be a cause of tension in your
relationship. If your boyfriend is
constantly bringing up old issues, he has not moved past the issue or he is
looking for a convenient excuse to end your relationship.
*Resentment
Whether
he says anything or not, you can tell there is still a lot of left-over
resentment. How can you tell? For one, he is avoiding looking at you. Next, he seems annoyed whenever you talk to
him. Although he may not have said anything,
he is probably still holding in angry feelings. When resentment is unresolved,
the relationship is in death throes.
*Affair
Your
boyfriend suddenly starts putting in longer hours at work, and you may notice
that he has become very secretive. He makes excuses to take calls in the other
room. You find strange numbers on his
cell phone, and he won’t give you an explanation. You question him about his new work habits or
strange phone calls at odd hours, and he becomes angry and refuses to
talk. These are all the signs of an
affair. Although affairs can be worked
through, they are a sign that something is wrong with the relationship, and he
could have already picked out your replacement.
*Don’t
talk anymore
The
more a couple communicates the better their relationship is. They are able to discuss any problems or
other issues that may come up. If you and
your boyfriend have stopped talking look out. The end is near.
*No
intimacy
Your
boyfriend no longer wants to be intimate. Intimacy is not always about
sex. It’s about spending time together
and sharing. This emotional bonding is the glue that holds all relationships
together. As human beings, people need to connect with one another. If your boyfriend is not connecting with you,
he is probably connecting emotionally with someone else.
*Decreased
sex drive
Sex,
like intimacy, is an important part of your relationship. If he no longer wants to have sex with you,
chances are good that he has found someone else to take care of that need for
him. Maybe you are still enjoying a
decent sex life; however, you sense that something is not quite right. He is physically with you, but emotionally
distant. This can signal an affair and that your boyfriend is preparing to
break-up with you.
It
is very rare that a break-up comes out of the blue. Most of the time, the person doing the
breaking-up has been thinking about it for a while, and if you are truly honest
with yourself, there were warnings signs.
If your boyfriend is displaying any of the signs above, chances are he
is planning on breaking-up with you. So, put on a brave face and have a heart
to heart conversation with your boyfriend.
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