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Friday, January 1, 2016

Winter Storm Outage Tips You May Not Have Thought Of


Winter Weather Outages Preparation Tips You Might Not Have Thought Of

Winter is finally here, and along with winter comes the possibility of power outages. Sure, you know to insulate the windows and purchase batteries. But did you think of these other important things?

*Have extra blankets and thick clothing available

Have extra blankets and clothes available to use during a winter power outage.  When the power goes out, your home could easily lose its heating source, and you will need the blankets and clothes to keep warm. You and your family should dress in as many layers as possible to keep warm. Keep your head covered since a large percentage of one’s body heat is lost through the head.

It is also a good idea to keep blankets in your car. If you have too, you can use your car for brief periods to access its heater. If you have a wood burning fireplace, it is a good idea to stock up on wood before the weather turns cold.

*Section off the house

Close off most of the rooms in your house. You and your family should gather in one main room like the living room or a bedroom to stay warm.  It is easier to try to heat one room than a whole house. 

*Fill up the gas tanks

Fill up your gas tanks before extremely cold weather strikes.  Gas heaters and gas stoves can help you and your family stay warm. They can also be used to prepare food during the power outage. Don’t forget to also fill up the car with gas. Your car can prove to be a source of heat.  You can use its heater for short periods to keep warm.  Just don’t try to sleep inside your car with it running as this could result in carbon monoxide poisoning.

* Flameless candles and flashlights

With the power out, you and your family will need a way of lighting your home.  Purchase several flashlights and flameless candles. Flameless candles eliminate the dangers of a fire. Have enough flashlights to light several rooms in your home. These will provide a source of lighting.

*Cook perishable food

If you have a way of preparing food, go ahead and cook your perishable food. The food can stay cool for a little while because of the freezing weather, but if the power remains off, it will ruin. Once you have consumed all of the perishable items, then start on the canned goods.

*Bottled water

Stock up on bottled water. Power outages can cause the water to also be off. Purchase enough water to last for at least a week. You will need this water for drinking and preparing food.

*Have a landline phone

When the power goes off at my house, the cordless phone is dead. Cell phones are great, but they also needed to be charges. So, keep at least one landline phone in your home.  .  Having one landline phone will ensure that you still have a way of communicating.

*Prevent frostbite

Protect your extremities and move around as much as possible to keep the blood circulating to your extremities.

* First aid kit

Before the cold weather strikes, have your first aid kit stocked and ready to use. This kit should include gloves, alcohol, cotton balls, bandages, Neosporin, gauzes, and other emergency items that can used if an emergency strikes.

Preparation is the key to surviving a winter power outage. So, be prepared!

Thursday, June 19, 2014

How to Prepare for Divorce Emotinally


 

There are many reasons that a couple may grow apart. Although that rift can sometimes be fixed, there are other times when there is only one solution and that solution is divorce. A divorce can be emotionally devastating for both partners. Whether you were the one who initiated the divorce or the one to receive the devastating news, you will need to prepare yourself for the emotional turmoil that occurs with divorce proceedings.

*Find a good support system

Having a good support system is a must in order to prepare for a divorce. Don’t try to isolate yourself. Family and friends are vital during this emotional time.

*Rediscover yourself

Rediscover yourself. Now that you don’t have to concentrate on making your marriage work, you can once again pursue some of your old hobbies and interests. You should do all of the things that you never had a chance to do while you were busy with your marriage. Pursue careers interests that you have been longing to try. Just be sure that you don’t try to do too much at once. Take it slow. It will take time to adjust to being single again.

*Accept the divorce

One of the first that you will need to do is to accept the divorce. Your marriage has ended, and it may seem like time is standing still. It isn’t. You have to begin to move forward. Stay positive and remember that it doesn’t help to blame your spouse or yourself. Accept the divorce for what it is.

*Take care of yourself

Although it may be hard to concentrate on simple things like healthy eating and exercising during this time, this is just what you need to do. Spend some time concentrating on yourself and not your circumstances. Continue to eat right and get some exercise.  Don’t forget to pay attention to your appearance. Make sure that you are neat and well-groomed.

*Allow yourself to grieve

Allow yourself to feel. Realize that your feelings of sadness, anger, and frustration are normal.  You have just suffered a loss, and it is normal to grieve that loss. Crying is normal. So, don’t be afraid or ashamed to let it all out. The pain of losing your marriage can be scary, but dealing with it is a normal part of the healing process.

*Write about your feelings

Write down your feelings about the divorce. This will help you to release all the anger and frustration that you may be feeling. Talking about your feelings can be difficult, and there may be some issues that just seem too personal to share even with a friend. A diary is private and will allow you to express your feelings openly and honestly. Writing will also help you to put things into prospective. Realize that it is okay to write about the good aspects of your marriage as well as the bad.

*Prepare for questions about your soon-to-be ex-spouse

It is inevitable that there will be questions about your impending divorce and your future ex-spouse. When these questions pop up, it is imperative that you are prepared to answer them. Although you may be angry with your spouse, don’t allow that anger to color your words. There is a strong possibility that those words will be repeated. You can simply explain that things didn’t work out and the two of you decided to call it quits or you can choose not answer these questions. Explain that you are not comfortable answering questions about the state of your marriage or your soon-to-be-ex-spouse.

*Begin to remove painful reminders

 Begin to pack away reminders of your spouse. You don’t have to throw them away. Just put them somewhere out of sight. Remove any of his or her old clothes from the closet. It is also okay to arrange a time for your soon-to-be ex to pick up their things or arrange to have a friend deliver the items to them. Don’t burn all of those pictures you two took together. Take them down and pack them away. If these pictures are of the two of you and your children, it is okay to keep them up.

Coping with a divorce is hard, but it can be done. Begin to prepare yourself for all the emotions and questions that your up-coming divorce will bring. Find a good support system and begin to rediscover some of the interests that you had before you married your spouse.